Being Coached

Just back from an excellent 5 days at 'Renewing Vision' conference with other clergy at Glenfall House, Cheltenham. Amongst very good input was that by Claire Pedrick of 3D Coaching. We had all completed a survey (mine just in time), not knowing what it would reveal about ourselves - always a bit of a worry!

In the event it was extraordinary how helpful the insights were. There was a 50 minute coaching session together with other input. I found myself being mirrored to myself with extraordinary accuracy after only a few minutes' conversation. But that wasn't the point of it of course. The value was that I able to seek advice on the basis of the insights revealed

3D coaching use DISC as a tool - details here:
www.3dcoaching.com
I won't try to explain though it is quite straightforward - the link should give what you need if you want to find out more.

Some years ago I discovered how important it is for me to give time for study, refection and planning during the week. I seek to give 2 sessions to this per week. It is a time of stepping back, catching vision hopefully prayerfully) and then doing diary work on the basis of this.

But I now realise how important both sides of the equation are. The 'Catching Vision' ('I' in the survey - but not the same as Myers-Briggs) side of me needs then to be able to translate that into planned action ('C'). Otherwise I simply become frustrated or overwhelmed by a sense of what needs to be done. I now understand why it is that is easy for things to hang over me. When catching vision, I need to be able to give it back to God through, in part, what I then do. I also need to be able to trust that my organisation is up to it and things do not get lost in the darkened places of my study or computer or business.

It is freeing to realise that the things that can be a burden reflect two aspects of who God has made me both struggling to be heard. I need to spend time with God on both. Rather than simply asking for God's peace (a prayer which was rarely fully answered) I now find that God has answered my prayer in a much more profound way. This will though mean me changing my pattern of life, with an understanding of what is needed.

To a significant extent I have known this all along. At one point I was told -'You know what you must do". Indeed, 'tis true. The advantage of 'time out' is that you can listen to the still small voice, and then hopefully act on it.

When I said 'yes, but', the response was - 'so you want to run on an empty tank'.

Starkly put, incredibly helpful, and proving to me how important it is that we all learn to mentor (disciple) one another. As Bill Hybels says somewhere (I think), he takes the important decisions of life within a few feet of someone else

Certainly so this week. May I know the grace of God to indeed Go in peace' and I put this into action in serving the Lord in his way, not mine.